For a lot of people, Pen and Paper Role Playing Games like Dungeons & Dragons and White Wolf's World of Darkness series seem like kid's stuff. Any experienced player, though, will tell you how much fun they can be for an adult crowd. For twenty-somethings who aren't into the bar and club scenes, and that's a lot of us, gaming is a great way to meet new people and have fun, while also exercising our creative sides. Just like any social event, hosting a game night isn't as easy as it sounds. In addition to guiding a piece of complex interactive fiction, hosts face a lot of the same challenges as people who throw dinner parties. Here are three tips to keep your friends and fellow players coming back for another chronicle.

A Hungry Player is a Distracted Player

If done correctly, a single RPG session can last several hours. No one should have to roll dice on an empty stomach. As the host of a game night, feeding your guests is essential. As everyone starts showing up, a simple appetizer is a nice way to create a happy, comfortable environment. Something as easy as chips and dip will do the trick. Providing a full but casual meal is even better. Hamburgers, stir fry or tacos all work well. They're fast, they're easy and they don't require an intricate table setting. After the meal and during the game, it's nice to have a few things your players can munch on. Some popcorn or cookies work well, as long as you have napkins available to keep your dice clean. I, personally, wouldn't recommend alcohol at game night. While it's not exactly a serious event, it's better when all the players pay attention and show courtesy. One too many beers or glasses of wine can create some social awkwardness during role playing.

Master of the Mingle

A lot of adult gaming groups are composed of people who didn't know each other before the game. As a host, it's your job to make everybody feel comfortable. A nice, warm introduction can make the difference between an unfortunately quiet room and the beginning of new friendships. Make sure there's plenty of seating and neutral lighting. Even some music, if it's not too loud, can help establish an inviting atmosphere. Start some conversations, show your guests that they're surrounded by interesting people. Also, make sure your space is a comfortable temperature. A person wearing a jacket looks unapproachable and when people are too warm they're less likely to sit close together or engage in lively conversation.

A Good Guest Makes a Happy Host

If you're a guest instead of the host, a lot of the above rules apply to you, too. As with a lot of casual at-home dining events, ask if you can bring anything when you're invited. Not only will this take some pressure off your host, it will allow you to add your own personal touch to the evening. Gaming is, after all, a social event. By establishing yourself as a conscientious member of the community you open yourself up to your fellow players. A salad, a bag of chips or a drink should suffice. Just like the host is responsible for introducing everyone, it's your job as a guest to be outgoing. Remember, everyone's here to have a good, relaxing time. Be yourself and listen well during conversations.

Happy gaming, everyone.